Grace

Okay.
So I get it.
Life sucks.
But I don't see how that's our fault.
And honestly, you can't blame anyone... because in the end everything that's happening
is of your own doing. If you make a mistake and things unravel... then it's the proper order of things... if you get negatively punished for things that you KNEW had that sort of consequence... you have no one to blame but yourself.
You'll always have God's grace... live with the consequences of your actions, and don't place anything in the hands of others, because you triggered your own undoing.